Polly Thelwall
Experienced psychodynamic counsellor for relationship and trauma issues
About Polly
Polly Thelwall is a counsellor who focuses on helping people who are feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, relationship strain, trauma and low self-esteem. She writes plainly and listens closely to understand what is making life difficult. Polly believes people can change and grow, and she supports them to find a steadier sense of self and balance.
Polly draws on eight years of experience in mental health and creative settings. She works psychodynamically, paying attention to how past experiences shape current feelings and patterns.
Background and approach
That approach helps uncover repeating themes such as attachment worries, abandonment fears, or difficulties with trust and commitment. In sessions she listens deeply and asks questions that help people notice parts of themselves that feel unseen. Polly often uses a parts-based model, looking at different feelings and roles a person carries.
She also brings relational and somatic ideas when they suit the person’s needs. People come to Polly for a wide range of issues beyond trauma, including body image, codependency, caregiver stress, chronic illness, dissociation, communication problems and separation. She aims to help clients clear the blocks that stop them feeling grounded and connected to themselves.
Polly is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. She works online with clients in the United Kingdom and carries out sessions by video call, phone, live chat or text messaging. To begin, people use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session according to her availability.
What Polly works with
How Polly works
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Sessions & fees
Psychodynamic approaches and online sessions
Psychodynamic Therapy looks at how earlier life experiences shape current feelings and repeated patterns. It helps people understand why they react in certain ways and can be useful for anxiety, relationship difficulties, identity issues and past trauma. Sessions often involve reflecting on feelings, memories and recurring themes to make sense of what keeps causing distress.Polly also uses relational and parts-based ideas within her psychodynamic work. Relational perspectives focus on how relationships with others affect a person’s emotional life. A parts-based model recognises different aspects of the self - for example an anxious part, a critical part or a protective part - and helps people hear and work with those parts rather than being overwhelmed by them.
Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic journey and is decided collaboratively. Polly will talk with each person about their needs, goals and preferences, and together they will shape a way of working that feels most helpful. This means sessions can focus on understanding history, practical coping, bodily experience or a mixture of these.
Online sessions give practical flexibility. Video calls allow eye contact and a fuller conversational flow. Phone sessions suit people who prefer not to be on camera or who need a simpler connection. Live chat and text-based messaging support shorter check-ins and written reflection that can fit around work, caring duties or busy days. Registered or accredited professionals offer these formats to make therapy more accessible across the United Kingdom.
| Session length | Typically 50 minutes |
|---|---|
| Client ages | Adults, 18 and over |
| Fees | Subscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime |
| Insurance | Not billed directly |
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Body image
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Mood disorders
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Trauma and abuse
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 8 years
- Registered with
- BACP
- Languages
- English
