Julie Gates
Calm, practical counselling for everyday struggles
About Julie
Julie Gates is a BACP counsellor who uses a warm, client-centred style to help people find clearer ways forward. She aims to make sessions calm and straightforward so a worried parent can understand what to expect. Julie writes and talks plainly, focusing on practical steps that suit everyday life.
Julie draws on five years of professional experience supporting people with stress and anxiety. She also addresses relationship concerns, self-esteem, depression, grief and trauma and abuse.
Background and approach
Her work includes practical help for sleep and eating issues, coping with life changes, and ADHD-related struggles. Her training includes a Level 4 Diploma in Psychodynamic and Person-Centred Counselling and a Level 5 Certificate in Counselling Children and Young People. She holds BACP accreditation, and she keeps her approach simple and relational rather than heavy on clinical terms.
In sessions Julie focuses on listening first, then on small, manageable steps. She uses psychodynamic ideas to look at patterns and solution-focused techniques to set short-term goals. Mindfulness and creative strategies are offered when they fit the person’s needs.
Julie accepts international clients and offers several online formats for sessions. She encourages people to start with a short questionnaire to help match priorities and to plan a route that feels achievable and humane.
What Julie works with
How Julie works
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Sessions & fees
How Julie’s Approaches Work Online
Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and responding to what matters most to the person. In practice this means the counsellor reflects understanding, asks open questions and helps people find their own solutions to stress, anxiety or self-esteem problems.Psychodynamic Therapy looks at recurring patterns and past experiences that shape present feelings and reactions. It can help when someone wants to understand why certain problems keep happening, such as repeated relationship difficulties or long-standing anxiety.
Solution-Focused Therapy emphasises small, practical steps and clear goals. This approach is useful for people who want short-term change or help with specific issues like sleep, coping with life changes or setting boundaries.
Finding the right blend of these approaches is part of the process. The therapist will discuss needs, goals and preferences and work collaboratively to choose what to try first. Decisions about methods and pace are reviewed together so the plan stays relevant.
Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation while phone sessions use less bandwidth. Live chat suits quick check-ins and text-based messaging supports ongoing reflection between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, childcare and travel.
| Session length | Typically 50 minutes |
|---|---|
| Client ages | Adults, 18 and over |
| Fees | Subscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime |
| Insurance | Not billed directly |
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Mood disorders
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 5 years
- Registered with
- BACP
- Languages
- English